Good Morning Eucarl, My husband wants me to pierce my nose and other parts of me body, i won’t lie, he has always told me admire piercing and tattoos but he never dated a girl like that. The reason he never dated girls with piercing and tattoos according to him was because he felt like ladies who are able to tattoo and pierce their ear and other body parts are not well trained or mannered. So he said he wanted to date a responsible lady and then get her to pierce so he wouldn’t have to worry about lady’s character.He doesn’t want me to tattoo because he said it would make me look irresponsible though he loves it but he keep insisting I get multiple piercings I also don’t like the idea. He was saying it before marriage and I was also saying it before marriage that it’s not something I would do. Now we are married there’s always argument because it’s a topic (piercing) he raises almost everyday.

He keeps forcing me and making trouble just because I don’t want it. He was keep comparing to his childhood friend who has multiple piercings and how it makes her look attractive.

He even shows me pictures of the girl anytime we are in an argument concerning the issue. I always told him that even if I will do that it would be because I want to do it for me.
Unfortunately we didn’t really take time to discuss this piercing of a thing before marriage and now I regret it.

We’re barely happy in this house because of this desire of his. If care isn’t taken we may end breaking apart. What do you suggest I do please????