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13 Jun 1 min read

I Lied About Being A Virgin, Now He Wants To Marry Me

I meet this guy online sometime last year, we started talking, eventually we became fond of each other. We talk for hours on the phone and we are always texting. One day we were talking dirty then I jokingly told him I am a virgin. I never knew he took it seriously, all I knew was his attention and care for me tripled. He became even sweeter. In June, he lost his uncle, he came back this month for the burial and he wants to take me along for the burial and also introduce me to his family and then come to see my parents so we can start making wedding plans. I asked why he wants to marry me and he said “it’s hard to see women like me that still keeps themselves” oh!, I am in trouble. I am not a virgin, infact I have two kids already. Whenever I tell my male acquaintances about having two kids, they disappear, now I told him I am a virgin, he wants to marry me. I don’t know how to tell him, I tried getting him to have s*x with me so he will realise but he said he would want us to wait till after our wedding. Please help me guys, what do I do ? I don’t want to loose him, he has done so much for me and I know he loves me, I don’t want to break his heart, he is a good man. How best do you think I should approach this?