She Didn’t Invite Me to Her Wedding, But Now She Uses My House as Her Refuge
My friend didn’t invite me to her wedding because, according to her, she thought I wouldn’t attend because of the distance. I had travelled out of town, but I would have still attended the wedding. This is not just a friend ooo. She’s someone who, if you asked me to mention five people in my life, would be in the top three. When I saw her photos and videos, I thought it was a joke. She said sorry to me and gave her explanation. I let it go, though honestly, I didn’t buy into her reason. Three years later, I’m back in town, and she’s having issues with her husband. She ran to my place and spent days with me just to cool off her head. She told me all her struggles, but honestly, I didn’t know how to advise her, so I just listened. Now, she’s trying to use my place as a refuge. I won’t hear from her for a few weeks, and then she would appear out of nowhere. The last time, she even left her baby with me and was gone for the whole day. I’m getting tired, and I honestly don’t want her around here again. I don’t have any problem telling her not to come here again, but will that sound insensitive if I tell her that? I also have my life to live and my problems to handle, but now it looks like she’s making me carry half of hers. I genuinely care about her, but I’m beginning to feel like she only remembers me when things go wrong in her life. I don’t want to be cruel, but I also don’t want my kindness to turn into an obligation.
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