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Anonymous
6 months ago
My Newly Wedded Wife Stole from Me

I just got married, I was happy and felt like I had achieved a lot already only for me to wake up this morning to the first marital shock of my life. Barely 24 hours of our wedding, my wife has started stealing and lying.

After our wedding, all the cash that friends and well wishers sprayed us was counted and handed of to me by my sister. I asked her how much it was and she said it was nine hundred and thirty two thousand naira (930,000).

I gave the money to my wife to keep and we drove down to our hotel suite. We planned to stay a while at the hotel for the weekend and then travel for our honey moon afterwards.

At our hotel, we had some drinks and laughed over some funny incidents at that occurred doing the weeding then we both slept off.

I woke up this morning and I asked my wife how much was the money, she said it was four hundred and thirty thousand (430,000).

I asked her if she was sure, she said yes. I was shocked, I couldn’t believe my ears. I went to the bathroom and called my sister to confirm If I heard wrong yesterday but no, she confirmed that the money she counted and gave to me was 930,000.

My people, what do I call this one. Na so we go do the marriage ? I had no plans for the money, but why lie?

What would you advise I do, should I let it slide or confront her? If I do, it might spoil our honeymoon, if I don’t, it will spoil mine. God.

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23 Responses

  1. How long are going to enter toilet to call people when you just need to face your challenges, calling your sister in her presence would have been it, collect your money.

  2. What if your sister stole the money, did you count the money to confirm that it was the amount she told you before handing over to your wife ?
    Guy be wise.

    1. Her sister might have taken her own not from the amount declared so the should come out clean.

  3. Ask your sister how much she stole before handing over the balance. On a more serious note, that woman is money conscious, and her type will do anything for money. Be warned.

  4. New wife wey like money πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
    It is well oh

    Just have a chat with her
    Don’t let it slide cause definitely it will happen again if left unaddressed..

  5. She is not there for love but rather for the money πŸ€‘
    Now that u have seen d red flag already t****ten that if she didn’t provide it then you will end the marriage.

    Because this is just the beginning else the next one na ur contracts book or withdrawal booklet of millions she go steal.

  6. I hope you know the entire money sprayed on you both at the wedding doesn’t belong to you but your wife?

    That aside she knows you can’t challenge her. Don’t challenge her and don’t accuse her.
    let her be.

  7. Bro, before the marriage there are some red flags you ignored because you are in love, thinking it will change after getting married to her. It’s her habit Nothing can be done you have to keep with it forever.

    1. God bless you.

      Love don cover him eye so he is not paying attention to what he ought to have to 😊

  8. Take her outside, tell her you want to switch rooms. Saying you already told the porter that she doesn’t need to worry about carrying anything. Watch her reaction..

    Meanwhile, excuse yourself and search her bags. If you find the money, tell her that she can keep it. At least you’d confirm what you married!

  9. The foundation is faulty already.
    A problem left unaddressed will not fizzle out but will continue until it is resolved!
    This is not the kind of issue you let slide.

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