Hi House, I just came across this site, and it’s interesting. Please let me rant and see if I am the only one in this situation.
I realized that whenever I am financially down my wife would not want to have s*x with me, she will lose interest and I have to beg, lobby, or cajole her into making out with me.
This has been happening as long as I can remember and it’s starting to turn me off. Most days when she finally gave in, I would have lost interest and would turn around and sleep.
Please am I the only one experiencing this?
P.S. I am not broke, I am doing well for myself.
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You need to have a one on one with your wife. It may be it’s her kinks…. Lot of women have different stimulant that drives them s*xually.
Thank you for sharing your concerns. It takes courage to openly discuss personal struggles, especially those related to relationships and intimacy.
It’s important to recognize that your situation is not uncommon. Some relationships may experience a dynamic where financial stability or provision is subtly linked to emotional or intimate connection. This can lead to feelings of resentment, frustration, and disconnection.
Consider having an open and honest conversation with your wife about your feelings and concerns. Approach the conversation with empathy and avoid blame or accusations. Explore ways to reconnect and strengthen your relationship beyond financial situations.
Remember, communication and understanding are key. You may also consider seeking guidance from a couples therapist or counselor to navigate this challenge together.
You are not alone, and there is support available.