I never thought I’d be a single mom struggling to make ends meet. But life had other plans. I met my baby’s father, and we were in a relationship for a few years. When I got pregnant, I thought we were on the same page, but I was wrong. As soon as I gave birth, he started pulling away. At first, it was just a little, but soon he was gone completely.

I was left to care for our baby on my own, with barely any support. I had to juggle taking care of a newborn with trying to make ends meet, but it was hard. I didn’t have a steady income, and my baby’s father didn’t seem to care. He wouldn’t even respond to my messages, let alone offer any financial help.

I felt so alone and overwhelmed. I had to rely on my family and friends to help me get by, but I knew I couldn’t do that forever. I needed to find a way to support myself and my baby. So, I started looking for jobs, but it wasn’t easy. I had to navigate childcare options and figure out how to make ends meet on my own.

It’s been 2 years and 4 months now, and it’s still a struggle. Some months are better than others, but I’m always worried about how I’ll provide for my baby. I wish I could say that my baby’s father has come around, but he hasn’t. I’ve had to accept that I’m on my own in this journey.

Despite the challenges, I’m determined to give my baby the best life possible. I’ve learned to be strong and resourceful, and not regret my decision for keeping the baby

I just wish that my baby’s father could see the amazing person our child is growing up to be. I hope that one day he’ll realize what he’s missing out on but than it may be too late.

Just want to encourage all the single mothers out there not to be fazed by absent partners, keep pushing.