Eucarl, please I need advise. I got married to my husband in 2022, he is a nice man but some things he has refused to drop is turning me off. The most embarrassing now is he prefers Ankara boxers.
While dating I saw it as nothing and I always makes jokes about it in which we will both laugh, generally his fashion sense is zero. I thought his a lot fashion wise and he has really picked up but he has refused to drop this Ankara boxers.
How will a grown man with a son be wearing Ankara boxers? His younger brother is a tailor, whenever he sows Ankara clothes, he asks him to use the offcuts to sow boxers for him.
I have talked, I have begged, I have even fought but still no change. I am not in talking terms with his younger brother because of this.
I used my money to buy him designers boxers but he has never worn any of them. He prefers to wear Ankara boxers and he is not ashamed as he wears within the compound, my neighbours are starting to laugh at me, please house help me, how do I get him to change and wear good boxers?
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This is interesting.
Well, I will advise you use the law of “give and take” (Its not a real law, I formed it 😂) but it works, i use it all the time on my husband.
Men often have needs, I am sure there is something your husband’s crave for the most, maybe a meal he loves, a s*xual fantasy or anything, Offer to do one of those things if he will drop the Ankara boxers.
Make sure it’s a worthy and fair trade, and one he can’t refuse. Make the deal, and keep to it, after three months, I found out my husband doesn’t go back even when I stop doing my part of the deal.
Try it, hopefully it will work for you. Good luck.