I recently saw the chat between my husband and his female bestie and I haven’t been able to sleep. The chats doesn’t sit well with me. he is calling her “baby”, telling her “I miss you”. He is also telling her that her pictures are so ther**eutic and that they are the best he has even seen in a while.
I confronted my husband and he got ang*y that I went through his phone. What do you advise I do, we just got married.
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Take control of your marital home, it all starts from a friendly and innocent chat. Talk to your husband and address the issue head on.
I understand your concern and upset. It’s natural to feel uneasy seeing intimate language and expressions from your husband to another woman, especially soon after marriage.
Firstly, acknowledge your feelings and concerns. It’s essential to communicate your perspective calmly and respectfully. Approach the conversation with empathy, avoiding blame or accusations.
Consider the following steps:
1. Choose a suitable time and place for a calm conversation.
2. Express your feelings and concerns, focusing on the specific language used.
3. Listen to his perspective and understanding of the situation.
4. Set clear boundaries and expectations for your relationship.
5. Reiterate your commitment and love for each other.
Remember, communication and understanding are key. Avoid assumptions and work together to strengthen your relationship. If needed, consider couples therapy for guidance and support.