I am 28 years old, married for 5 years with
two kids, a 3-year-old and a 3-month-old.
Three months ago, we relocated from Nigerian to Ghana and we stayed in the same region and street near my brother-in-law’s
house. He’s my husband’s older brother,
around 48 years old. Since we moved, he has been visiting us on weekends to spend time
with my husband. However, he has started
coming over even when my husband is away,
bringing groceries and other items, which I accept. Recently, I’ve had dreams warning me
to stay away from my brother-in-law because he might harm my marriage. The third dream
was particularly unsettling, involving a woman
named Betty arguing with him because of me.
When I asked my husband the name of his
brother’s wife, he said he thought it was Betty.
My husband has been away for three weeks now, and my brother-in-law has been visiting
more frequently, staying late into the evening.
He compliments me on how well i take care of my husband and children, often wishing his wife could do the same. He has started
bringing up uncomfortable topics and once even touched my thigh, claiming it was an
accident. He asked me not to tell my husband about his visits when he’s away, but I find his behavior suspicious. Should I tell my husband about his brother’s frequent visits and inappropriate behavior, or should I ask my brother-in-law to stop
coming unless my husband is home? My husband is kind but can be very reactive, and
I’m worried this could disrupt our home. I will be reading the comments. Thank you.
4 Responses
If you love your marriage better tell your husband first
You keep opening doors when he knocks or does he just appear in your house with juju please stop asking basic questions pls it’s annoying seeing a woman or man not knowing what is basic in protecting their family and relationship
You need to tell your husband that his brother visits whenever you’re not around just to save your self and marriage from unnecessary issues. Remember that sin thrives in secrecy. If you’re not opened about it, you will commit adultery and lose your marriage and everything eventually.
Madam, kindly report him to your husband and tell him all you told us here. The earlier the better. For all you know, he has been having issues with the wife bcos of the groceries she has been bringing that’s why you had that dream.
Again, bear in mind that he is 20 years older than you, so he may think, you are not “mature” enough, before you realise, he will sleep with you.