Relationship
Anonymous
6 months ago
My Boyfriend and his Ex are still very close.......

My boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend are still in touch. The girl can phone my boyfriend at any time to ask him to do something for her, and he will agree. I have often complained about this but he replies they are not enemies and she just wanted his help. He claims that nothing is happening between them, but I can’t accept that since she still has feelings for him. He now says im overthinking and I don’t trust him so if I think I can’t trust him I leave the relationship? What advice would you guys give me?

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  1. If he’s okay with doing stuff for ‘the other woman’, he should definitely not see a problem with a trusted male ‘friend’ you have who also does stuff for you. Monkey see, monkey do. Works for me all the time love🥂

  2. If he loves you and priorities you enough he’d listen to you. You know how we women are when it comes to deception. Just think twice and know your stand in the relationship. Dont put your all in it,so when you break up,it wouldn’t hurt you much

  3. First you don’t complain to him rather give him reasons to see the manipulation from a woman’s point of view because men can be ignorant of the manipulation of women especially in such situation that her ex knows she got a woman and her actions will either break you guys up and have her return to him. The ex knows what she is doing but you as the girlfriend should give him reasons to understand that the ex doesn’t respect him or your relationship with him. Unless the guy is not being sincere with you from the start. It’s not wise to have your ex in a friend zone because something wasn’t right Which led to them being ex. If he values his relationship with you after you’ve given him reasons on how women think and why the ex is doing all she is doing as a result that she is not happy that he moved on before her to be in a relationship with you and she plans to destroy it. He will protect what he shares with you. But if he fails to respect that…you should call it off and find a man that values you enough.

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