I noticed a change in my husband’s behavior about a year ago. He became distant, and our intimate moments became fewer and farther between. He would criticize me constantly, and even small disagreements would escalate into hurtful arguments. I felt like I was walking on eggshells, never knowing what would trigger his anger.

I suspected infidelity, but I had no proof. The lack of affection and intimacy was taking a toll on my self-esteem. I felt like I was no longer attractive or desirable to him. The constant criticism and verbal ab**e made me feel like I was the problem.

I began to wonder if it was because I hadn’t given him a child yet. The pressure to conceive was mounting, and I felt like I was failing him in some way. But deep down, I knew that our issues went beyond that.

It took a lot of courage, but I finally confronted him about my suspicions and feelings, he just waved it off and it created more tension at home. At this point I don’t know what to do.