Please, I need your views on this. Maybe it’s me, or maybe you’ll see reasons with me.

My partner, wants to travel abroad. The problem is, he isn’t financially strong enough to do that yet. He’s working hard, saving every penny he can, but with his current earnings, it will take years to save enough.

I suggested we focus on other things for now while we save and plan properly for the trip, but he refuses. He wants to travel as soon as possible.

He has also told his family about his travel plans, and they are fully supportive (not financially). In fact, his mother calls every day to ask how the plans are coming along, which only adds more pressure on him.

The last time we talked about this, it escalated into an argument. He’s starting to see me as an obstacle, like I’m his enemy.

I don’t particularly want to travel, but I don’t mind compromising for him—just not like this. Even if I added all my money, it wouldn’t be enough. I’ve heard and read so many scary things about relocating abroad and getting stranded and I wouldn’t want to be a victim.

This situation is straining our relationship. Please advise me. How do I make him see reason?