Recently, I told my boyfriend about my past and he has been acting distant.
He no longer cares about me, it’s so glaring, he no longer take me or anything about me serious. He cancelled most of our plans for the holiday. As if that wasn’t enough, I had a minor accident that took me to the hospital and he didn’t even cared to come see me.
Is it wrong to have opened up about my past relationships to my boyfriend? Just so you know, my past is not even as bad compared to his.
Please what do you advise I do? I still love him and want him.
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It’s not wrong to open up about your past, as it can deepen understanding and intimacy in a relationship. However, everyone’s comfort level with vulnerability differs, and it seems your boyfriend may be struggling with this new information.
Try having an open and honest conversation with him about how his behavior has changed and how it’s affecting you. Explain how his distance and lack of support are making you feel, and ask if everything is okay from his perspective.
This conversation can help clarify his feelings and concerns. It may also be an opportunity for him to work through his own issues and come closer to you again.