Hello, I’m a girl in my early 20’s. I’m a student at UDS tamale campus in Ghana, I’m from Nigeria. Well I was in a relationship with my ex boyfriend for six months. Everything use to be okay till s*x departed us. Note: I was a v*rgin!! One time I visited him and we were having good time together till boom we started undressing but the thing is when he tried to put his d*ck in me it couldn’t enter. He tried using lubricant since naaa it’s still the same.

So we stopped it. Since then he always behave someway to me, he has never texted me after that incident and when I text him he will reply in some manner. Eg. “Good morning babe how are you doing today” he’s response will be “yh good” that’s all!! I sometimes wondered why he acts like that. Even though we weren’t able to have s*x but we do a lot of s*xual stuffs like me giving him B*J, him s*cking me, kissing and other stuffs.

One day I was very worried and I confronted him about how he behaves recently and his response was ” I don’t think this relationship can work” “you are not s*xually active I can’t be with you”💔 I tried begging him and persuading ahhh still na he wants breakup. He ignored me saaa till I decided to also move on though it still hurts me.

Meanwhile I was already planning my future with him ooo🥹 and he’s 27, 28 years old ooo I think at this age you should be stable and have someone to plan a future with. Is my situation a valid reason to ask for break up? I’ll be in the comments section.