I met and liked a lady who was hawking. I piqued and expressed interest in her and she agreed.
We started dating, she visited me a few times and we made out. I was thinking she was one of those good girl, so it never even occurred to me to protect myself. I was there one day when I realized my manhood started itching and I was feeling pain inside. I went to check at the hospital and the test revealed Gonorrhea. I took an injection and some drugs and came home. I was narrating what had happened to my friend and he asked if I checked for HIV too and I said no. I even added jokingly that the girl may have Gono but HIV was not possible.
We both laughed but he went on to encourage me to go and check and when I did, I was shocked that the result was positive. So I called the girl and told her but she insisted she doesn’t have any STI, I thought she might be ignorant and I took her to check and she was diagnosed positive, which confirmed she gave it to me. To make my story worse, she was also pregnant and she claims it’s mine. As if that’s not enough she also has one child already, which she hid from me..
The child is 6 years old and the lady is 26 so she had her 6 years ago, I couldn’t tell.
I’m now responsible for her, the pregnancy and her 6 year old child. She insisted the pregnancy is mine and that I gave her the HIV so she won’t abort the baby. This thing is stressing my life. I really don’t know what to do. Just one traffic I got stuck in see where my life is now. I am so ashamed of myself. My rent would soon expire.i don’t know if I should just run away. I’m currently in Kumasi, Ghana
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Wow your story is quite emotional but run away should be the least of your concern.
You both are HIV positive, you are now on Journey of being healthy, and slight abandonment might need to over thinking on the ladies side and drastically affect her health same to you. Take a steps towards recovery first.
As for the financial difficulties I sincerely wish you luck in finding your feet again. Your life isn’t over find that little glimpse of happiness and magnify it.
Don’t give up bro
*running