I am 43 years old, no child, expect for one that I’ve adopted. She’s 6 years old. I really want to marry someone my age or older. I’ve tried younger men and they re never serious. Some just want to prey on me
I’ve been through it all, I’ve seen it all, so I know it when I meet a man who isn’t worth my love. My sisters says I think too much and that’s why it’s difficult for me to be in a committed relationship but I know what I’ve been through.
Another problem I’ve is that I’m a b****t cancer survivor, so my b****t is incomplete. Immediately they get closer and see all these they run. I just want to be happy. Somehow it bothers me that I’ll never know how it feels to be a wife, to serve and submit to my own man. I’m not desperate I’m just scared it will be too late soon. I envy my sisters and brothers. I have to always stay away from them in order not to ever let my envy overpower me and make me do something terrible or regretful.
Now, I just want to be happy and married. It’s not coming and I’m brothered. I am not seeking love from your audience, I am only asking for mental health tips, don’t get me wrong. I’ve honestly been through a lot
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Please dear, don’t tie your whole happiness around marriage, yeah I know marriage is good but still so many wished they never entered cos of marrying wrong, and you wouldn’t want to marry wrong cos of pressure, God will give you yours in no time, be positive..
Stay positive man. It’s never too late. Just widen your horizon
My dear pull yourself together so you don’t do terrible things just as you said.
God is not sleeping, He is watching everyday and He understands your heart desires better than you do, I pray you find the man of your dream 🙏
Do not overthink.
Marriage is good, but it isn’t everything.
Treat the adopted kid well, something valuable may come to because of the kid.
You aren’t alone in this.