About two months ago, I found myself jokingly asking a friend to find me a boyfriend, not expecting much.

Surprisingly, I hit it off with the guy she introduced me to. We were texting non stop, flirting and everything seemed great. However after a few weeks, another friend of mine hinted that the guy might be a serial playboy, so I decided to observe quietly without confronting him. Being in a long distance relationship with him, his outgoing and social nature didn’t really bother me.

But as time passed and our conversation slowed downed, especially after the warning from my friend, doubts started creeping in. I wanted to give him benefit of the doubt, hoping he would come clean if he had anything to confess.

Despite giving him opportunities to be honest, he continued to deceive me. We are still together but I am reflecting on our relationship, Is he _really_ cheating on me? I’m left questioning his intentions and whether our connection was genuine.