I have a young lecturer friend in uni who happened to like my coursemate which he discussed with me since we are friends so I told him since he is single he can go for her.
Subsequently they started dating after two months my lecturer friend opened up to me by telling me his health challenge(that instead of releasing sp*rm he releases blood ) but he said I shouldn’t tell his girlfriend who is my coursemate.
So please am confused on what to do? The guy in question who is my lecturer is my friend and the girl is my coursemate.
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You’re in a difficult situation, caught between loyalty to your friend and concern for your coursemate. It’s essential to handle this sensitive information with care.
You can handle it by taking the following approach
1. Encourage your lecturer friend to be honest with his girlfriend about his health issue.
2. Respect his trust in you by not disclosing the information to your coursemate without his consent.
3. If you feel strongly that your coursemate should know, have a gentle conversation with your lecturer friend about your concerns, emphasizing the importance of transparency in a relationship.
4. Remember that ultimately, it’s your lecturer friend’s decision where and when to share this personal information.
5. You can also ask the if he has taken medical advice and recommend to a good doctor.
Remember to approach this situation with empathy and discretion. Encourage honesty and respect your friend’s trust, while also considering the well-being of your course mate