I never thought I’d be that type of person, but here I am, checking my partner’s phone when he’s not around. It began with a simple glance at what they were posting to WhatsApp while out of the room. It escalated to becoming a ha...

Each time I look at Instagram, I get a gut punch. Everybody’s flaunting flawless skin, expensive holidays, brand new vehicles, and “soft life” schedules. It’s always those same captions—”woke up like this,” or “gratef...

I am actually originally from Nigeria, but all back homethink I am still studying in the UK. I once forged a fake acceptance letterjust to make them believe it. When they video call, I wear a hoodie, blur atthe back and say I am overwhelmed with c...

Good morning, please I need your community advice on a relationship situation I am currently trying to juggle. “I’m stuck between staying in a comfortable but unfulfilling relationship or taking a leap of faith and starting over. IR...

Good evening Eucarl community, I am a 28 years old female, I have been struggling with whether to prioritize my career or my family’s expectations. I come from a traditional background where women are expected to prioritize marriage and chil...

I never thought I’d be a single mom struggling to make ends meet. But life had other plans. I met my baby’s father, and we were in a relationship for a few years. When I got pregnant, I thought we were on the same page, but I was wrong...

I still remember the day I met her. I was swept off my feet by her charm and beauty. I thought I had found my soulmate. I invested everything in our relationship – my time, emotions, and resources. I disconnected from my friends and family, ...

I was 22 when I got married. There were eagerly signs of what to expect in my marriage, even before tying the knot, since I had been dating my ex for almost 3 years. However 2 of those years were long distance while I pursued my master’s abr...

I wake up every morning before dawn, my body aching from the physical labor I endure daily. I work multiple jobs just to make ends meet, all to provide for my family and bring them out of the hardship we’ve faced for so long. Despite my best...

Hello Eucarl, I really need advice on how to deal with my sisters. I’ve been a victim of constant abuse from my sisters since I had my baby out of wedlock. They have never approved of my decision to keep my child, and their disapproval has ...

I’m happy to be here, saw your advert and I like the platform. However, all this topic here no really dey touch me. Me I wan know how I go take make am for this life. Adulthood is hitting me hard, like hard, real hard. What will you guys adv...

My boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend are still in touch. The girl can phone my boyfriend at any time to ask him to do something for her, and he will agree. I have often complained about this but he replies they are not enemies and she just wanted hi...

I met this guy some time ago when he came to pick up a few things at my mom’s place. We had a great connection, but we didn’t exchange contacts. A month or two later, he stopped by again to say hi, and this time, we exchanged numbers. We started c...

I saw a chat between my husband and his elder sister. I gave birth last month and my mum came for to help me cater for the new born child. My husband in their chat was telling his sister that since my mother came, our house scent changed. That my ...

Good day house. Please weigh in on this. My wife put to bed last month through CS, it’s our first baby. Immediately after the delivery my mother in-law came for the Omugwo, according to tradition. She has been so helpful, like she does ever...

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I am 28 years old, married for 5 years with two kids, a 3-year-old and a 3-month-old. Three months ago, we relocated from Nigerian to Ghana and we stayed in the same region and street near my brother-in-law’s house. He’s my husbandR...

Four days ago, my wife said she had a night shift. Feeling alone at home with our nine month old baby boy, I decided to surprise her at her workplace since her mother was around to help with the baby. It was late, but I wanted to spend some time w...

Good evening Eucarl, please I need an outside opinion. I’ve been married to my husband for over four years now, and one thing that has consistently caused tension in our relationship is his habit of seeking advice from his family members wit...

We’ve been married for 3 years, I trusted my husband and I let him have his space. I believe whatever he says, he hangs out with the boys, come late sometimes and I never had issues with him even though sometimes I know something was off. I...

I just dunno how to start this but something is eaten me up, I have been a relationship with my girlfriend for 5 years now. I have trust issues due to what happened at the beginning of the relationship thus, she accepted 3 men proposals and denied...

I just got married, I was happy and felt like I had achieved a lot already only for me to wake up this morning to the first marital shock of my life. Barely 24 hours of our wedding, my wife has started stealing and lying. After our wedding, all t...

You remember when your father told you that so so so wealthy person was his friend ? Maybe one billionaire or one politician or one business mogul was once your dads friend and you can’t help but to wonder what happened, why is your dad not ...

I grew up with four friends, similar backgrounds, we had great dreams. My dream was the most simplest and most basic, they had bigger dreams but as we grew older, life presented it’s challenges and I watch all my friends give up. University ...

Married people in the house, please advise, Is it normal for marriage to feel boring? I have been married for 6 years now at the earliest stage of our marriage was dramatic, my husband use to cheat, go clubbing and sleep out. There is always drama...

Hey, please I need advice. My boyfriend of two years has never posted me on his social media particularly his WhatsApp status, at first he said he likes keeping his relationship private which I kinda understood but he always posts his female frien...

I met this guy on Snapchat, and through our conversations, we fell in love and started dating. We talk about everything and often make video calls. He’s visited my place but I haven’t been to his. He wants me to wait until he finishes ...

I am in love with my pastor. He is my spec. I drool sometimes thinking about him. You will find me in church as earlier as I know he will be in church and every other week day services. Most times I go for counselling just to talk to him, not like...

I meet this guy online sometime last year, we started talking, eventually we became fond of each other. We talk for hours on the phone and we are always texting. One day we were talking dirty then I jokingly told him I am a virgin. I never knew he...

Years ago, when I was much younger and naive, my elder sister had a boyfriend which we all knew, he was cool, funny and very caring. But for some reasons my sister never really liked this guy, she is always being harsh on him, never giving him the...

Eucarl, please I need advise. I got married to my husband in 2022, he is a nice man but some things he has refused to drop is turning me off. The most embarrassing now is he prefers Ankara boxers. While dating I saw it as nothing and I always make...

My girlfriend of 2 years that I have made plans to marry in few months time just opened up about her body count and it’s bothering me, can’t get it out of my head. We’ve made wedding plans but over the weekend we were talking, I ...

I invested all I had into crypto, and literally lost everything. Got fired from my job for looking at charts and not focusing on work. I am from Nigeria living in Europe and have to send money home monthly to my parents. Can’t talk to anyone and f...

Hello, I’m a girl in my early 20’s. I’m a student at UDS tamale campus in Ghana, I’m from Nigeria. Well I was in a relationship with my ex boyfriend for six months. Everything use to be okay till sex departed us. Note: I wa...

Traveling for vacation is fun but relocating permanently abroad is a different ball came. its been months since I left, I haven’t rested, from one one temporal job to another. How do people survive abroad?

You know that wet line that looks like water or steam that is left on chairs after seating on it, yes that’s bum sweat, at first I didn’t know what it was called but it’s my biggest nightmare right now. I just started working at ...

I met my husband last year we dated for months then we got married early this year. 3 Weeks into the marriage he started complaining that he doesn’t like me, that there girls that really wanted him but he refused. He started talking about his ex t...

Like everyone else, if I knew what I know now then, I would have done some things differently and one of those things is getting married. I wish I got married earlier to my wife. We’ve know for years, I asked out within the first 6 months of...

I was very much in love with my husband when we got married. He is someone that doesn’t see any bad thing in sharing his face towel with a particular lady . He would say it means nothing. But then there is a particular incident that got me. ...

Hi Eucarl, My girlfriend and I are in the same university and the same hostel. Since the start of the semester, she has been sleeping over in my “two in a room”. She’s literally my roommate. Because she sleeps at my place, her roommate has also br...